Neurodiversity
Autism and ATTENTION-DEFICIT HYPERACTIVITY DISORDER
While I do not have formal training in diagnosing autism or ADHD, I am a neurodiverse individual and work with many neurodiverse clients and enjoy it immensely. Many of the people I work with did not come to learn about their neurodiversity until later in life, and this can bring about much exploration and revising of past experiences.
resources for Autism
Embrace Autism is one of my favorite websites for some free assessments. The site contains mainly autism assessments. I especially recommend the Ritvo Autism Asperger Diagnostic Scale - Revised or the Autism Quotient (AQ) as assessments to start exploring. The website also contains ways to seek a more formal diagnosis, which can be hard for many adults.
The book I most recommend for learning about autism initially is Unmasking Autism by Dr. Devon Price, who just wrote a follow-up book called Unmasking for Life.
resources for adhd
For an online ADHD assessment, the Wender Utah Rating Scale (WURS) or the Adult ADHD Self-Report Scale can be good places to explore whether or not to pursue a formal ADHD diagnosis.
My favorite book for learning more about ADHD is Scattered MInds: The Origins and Healing of Attention Deficit Disorder by Gabor Maté